Time to be happy

We all come into this world with a destiny of our own and an agenda that we are required to live upto no matter what choices we make. Sometimes time gives us a chance and sometimes we give time a chance to lead our lives to where they need to be. We all live in a certain time frame, and we all have our death clocks ticking. In every few heartbeats we loose each minute of our life.

Time will keep ticking and our life will keep deteriorating, and it is upto us to live, live every second of it. We set the value of our worth into this world and it is our responsibility to make sure that we live every minute of our life being happy.

If it was to boil down to statistics and graphing analysis, I would certainly conclude that life is a downward facing curve, the more the time passes the less years we have to be happy. But, what we can maintain at a constant is our curve of happiness.

Every human should work towards maintaining their curve at a constant. In the end 80 or maybe 100 years down the road, on your death bed, you want to walk down the memory lane with a feeling of contempt that you didn't waste all those minutes or seconds of your life trying to keep someone else's curve of happiness constant.

I am not saying that giving happiness to others is not possible or that its a bad thing, but, tilting the angle of your curve at the cost of it is not applicable. Yes, it might sound selfish, but this is reality. You can only actually control your curve, within the constraints life puts you into. The moment you let other people's curve interfere with yours (intersect), its a downfall.

Two people whether in any sort of relationship should ideally have curves that are parallel to each other or upward sloping, if not, ones' happiness would be interrelated and interdependent to the others'.

Just to make it a bit cliche...learn to LIVE your own life, and try to take an overdose of happiness each day.

It is never too toxic to be Happoholic.